Step 1: Make sure you set up time in your schedule where you are able to give money your undivided attention.

This is your "date", your connection time with money. You two can spend a short amount of time or a long period of time together. Up to you! The point here is to schedule it and bask in the anticipation of your upcoming date for days or weeks ahead of time. This could be scheduled 1x per week, bi-monthly, or once a month! 

Find what frequency works best for you that you can actually stick to. 

Step 2: Go on the date!

Prepare your environment like you would want to spend with your drop-dead gorgeous crush, your sexy spouse, your romantic partner. 

What would make you feel like a wealthy goddess? 

You can dress up, you can dress down, you can be in your birthday suit! The options are endless here. You can even go to a café or a bougie restaurant/hotel if that’s your vibe! I personally like staying at home for the sake of keeping this more low-key, sustainable, consistent, & cost-conscious! But you do you, girl! Again, this is YOUR date! 

Step 3: The date begins

The date begins…open up all of your money portals – any account where your money circulates (I.e. savings account, banking systems, investment accounts, credit card statements, etc).

Step 4: Check these accounts – What’s happening in your accounts?

How much are you spending (money being released)? Is your spending in alignment with your financial goals? 

Is there anything in your transactions that needs to change?

Any subscriptions that you no longer use that you need to cancel? 

Any services that you need to discontinue because they’re no longer useful in this season of your life? Any services or items that no longer support you with multiplying your wealth and growing your assets? 

If you own a business, check on your sales, your profit, your expenses. Make sure everything looks and feels in alignment with your money goals in business. This doesn’t have to be extensive IF you outsource this to an account or financial expert. 

Check in on your investment account if you have one. Practice investing a specific amount once a month so that it grows/multiplies/compounds over time. When you set up the investment account, you could invest as low as $20 a month. DO NOT TOUCH THIS ACCOUNT OR EXTRACT ANY FUNDS FROM IT. When you leave it untouched, watch it GROW or compound over time.